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Articles: My Thoughts | | మాట పదిలమే అమ్మడూ! | |
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| "nAluka cheDulaMja dAnini nammavaladu"!
amma anEdi nAlukE... nIyamma anEdi A nAlukE. dAnini adupulO umchukuMTE prapaMchAnni gelichEyochchu.
aMdukE annAru. nOru maMchidayitE Uru maMchidavutuMdani.
Posted by: Bullibasu Bullibasu At: 23, Mar 2010 1:06:02 AM IST
There are people who talk nicely and strategically but nothing is real with them. They have a split personality. I have seen people talking nicely in front of us and working against us at the back. They are more dangerous than people who express their emotions. I have seen women who spread rumours and try to destroy the harmony in families. It is always good to talk nicely. It is also required to have a pure heart to spread love amongst people. Talking sweetly is definitely an art. These days TV serials have lot of influence. I came across a lady recently who all the time talks about the third person and tries to malign others. She has ruined her relations with her in-laws and her husband is a scapegoat and he can not do anything to repair his situation. She talks so much and also says "Actually I am very frank and I do not know how to talk. I can not keep my feelings inside." This is also a tactic. So, if we try to live our life happily, we should first of all learn to concentrate on our personality a lot. Talking ill of others and always blaming others for our problems and creating and concroting stories and working against our own people may satisfy their ego temporarily, but ultimately, TRUTH prevails. So, while we talk, it is always good to guard our words and remember too what we are talking and why we are saying a harsh word and what effect it has on others. Words cause wars. Some people try to work against others but they try to be very sweet on the face and stab from behind. We see Villaians in the films. They outwardly talk so smooth but their actions are ruthless. Anyway, there should be balance in our actions and words. Some people are harsh outwardly but their heart is good. They love each and every one but if they see something seriously going wrong, they lose control on their emotions. It is for the good of the children only. My father used to be very strict and sometimes very emotional too while bringing up children. Those days we used to fear him a lot. He used to shout if he gets angry. But once we are mature, we realised that we should be proud to have such a person as father as he has inculcated values and morals of life in all the children, though in a hard way. Anyay, this article is very thought provoking and it is definitely true that we have to be careful when we talk and we should talk we really mean and we should stand by our words.
Posted by: Mrs. manjari At: 20, Mar 2010 7:29:34 AM IST
VERY NICE TO READ BUT VERY HARD TO IMPLEMENT. I SUGGEST EVERYBODY TO IMPLEMENT IT.
Posted by: Mr. venkateswarlu damaraju At: 16, Mar 2010 11:14:59 PM IST
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