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Articles: My Experience | How to live in harmony when there is none?
- Mrs. sharmila Sanka
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Harmony is maintaining a good balance between good and odd, peace and anger, happiness and sorrow, laughter and depression. Harmony is required to convert a ‘House’ into a ‘Home.’ Harmony is also required in order not to turn a ‘house’ into a ‘hell.’
Present day life has become so tedious mentally as well as physically. Every person is becoming problematic; every situation is becoming critical and every opportunity is turning into an obstruction. At such times and situations, how can we live in harmony? These are the thoughts that pop up when we hear the word ‘harmony.’ There are ways to minimize the above worsening conditions.
To create harmony, it requires the spirit of at least one being. If a partner or a person in the family acts as a cause for the imbalance in life, it is then the responsibility of the other to maintain stability.
There are certain aspects which help us not to destroy the balance in life.
They being patience, love, care, humility and control of anger and hatred .Though they are difficult to follow, they are not impossible. It is our own home, our own family member we are helping in order to live in peace.
Above all, domination kills the initiative of any partner. It acts as the main hindrance to peace and stability. It should be highly controlled. Domination is not great where as humility is. Domination is very easy where as, being humble is real tough. If any person is trying to be dominant, indirectly neglect and softly discourage that quality in him. Let him not take pride in that. Let him know that being bossy is not great; being a boss is. If a person or partner is filled with hatred or disinterest, then try to replace those with love. Be calm and don’t compare with others’ families; it rages the other person. Comparison annoys man. If a person is impatient, you start being patient. You be the first to start building up harmony. Understanding is highly required for this. Understanding is the capability of helping others .Living a peaceful life when there are no problems is very easy. The toughest part is living a harmonious life when there is none. As it is said, life is pleasant; death is peaceful. It's the transition that's troublesome.
Every moment, be aware of your acts and your reactions. When you observe your own acts and behaviour not with your naked eye but with your heart, then you can easily solve the problems which obstruct your harmonious life. Be truthful to yourself. Cheating one’s own conscience is worst than any sin in the world. Live with patience which is the solutions for all problems. Most importantly, when nothing seems to be good, give some time for yourself. Let time rule your destiny and fears. Love, selflessness, patience and perseverance bless your life with harmony no matter how the other person reacts or responds. Start filling them in yours as well as in others’ lives and you will see miracles happen in your normal life.
“The true gauge of a man is how he reciprocates to a person who is of no good to him.” - Sharmila Sanka
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