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Articles: Women | Respect for woman? - Mrs. xxxx x
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287. Mu`adh bin Jabal (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: The Prophet (PBUH) said, 'Whenever a woman harms her husband in this world, his wife among the (Houris in Jannah) says: `You must not harm him. May Allah destroy you! He is only a passing guest with you and is about to leave you to come to us'. [At-Tirmidhi].
Commentary : The Islamic Shari `ah commands men to treat their wives with kindness. In the same spirit it commands wives to be obedient to their husbands. She canot hurt the feelings of her husband by using indecent language, immodest conduct, immoral actions and making unfair demands which are beyond his means. It is very common among women to tease and trouble their husbands by these three practices, except for pious women.
288. Usamah bin Zaid (May Allah be pleased with them) reported : The Prophet (PBUH) said, 'I am not leaving behind me a more harmful trial for men than women'.
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim].
Commentary : According to this Hadith, women and their beauty are the greatest and most disastrous mischief for men. This fact can be easily verified by observation. Men are generally constrained to take to corruption and unfair means of income to fulfill undue demands of their wives. If women learn to lead a simple life, men will not need much to make money through unlawful means. Similarly, it is women who compel men to hold all kinds of meaningless customs and ceremonies on marriage parties and thereby violate Islamic injunctions, and incur more expenses. If women go by the Islamic injunctions, the marriages would become a greater source of happiness and pleasure.
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